Well I got to tell you, that it is not entirely their fault, one person cant always be at fault in a relationship. Just as one person cant be responsible for YOUR actions.

Have you ever wondered why you just cant reach some people? Or why you just cant make them see what it is you mean?
Well maybe it is because you do not see or acknowledge your own part in the drama! I mean if you cant change, why should you expect the other person to change as well?

We, as a people, need to start taking responsibility for our own actions. If we do not we will never go forward in our personality. We will just stay at the same spot an wonder why everybody is soooo unfair to us and why everybody means to spite us in every thing we do.
Down that road lies only self pity, depression, spiralling down in a great dark hole called death-of-spirit!

So friends and foes go forth and do not be afraid to turn the light around on yourself, for you will grow as a person and as a fellow man, and the things that used to be important (like who said what, and who badmouthed who) will all melt into oblivion and you will rise above it and see the bigger idea of things.

May whatever God or deity you hold near bless you!

All that life is, is a struggle to see through a veil of cleverly hidden lies and deceptions. Our jobs, our TRUE jobs is to lift that veil and become something more than what we are now.  Renaissance is French for “rebirth”. And reborn human beings is what we should aspire to be.

Cast of your old conceptions of the world and step beyond the veil over your eyes and see the world as it is.  Is it true that I am my job? Or my suit, or my sports car? Or am I something more? Something sublime maybe? Am I capable of great feats? Am I capable to think for myself now?

I used t be my suit, my car and my job. It broke me in pieces and scattered my true self to the four winds. But as the phoenix I rose through the ashes and saw for myself that all my “truths” were in fact lies. And that I was, in fact, being tested.

So my Renaissance men and women, go forth and do your best to take charge of your true self, and do not be afraid to wake!

Before we were taught not to cheat, lie or steal. We were taught that we should not violate each other or treat our fellow man with nothing other than courtesy.

I admit that in those old days there were scoundrels and bastards just like there is now, but more people were concerned about comporting themselves with dignity, and living a life of, yeah Ill say it again, honour!

I see today when I walk in this world how people act, they cheat and steal. They lie about anything, everything. They treat each other with total and utter indifference.

These things are bad, what is worse is that everybody see it and nobody gives a damn!

When my grandpa was young people would rarely be discourteous to an elderly person, and if someone was other people would reprimand them.

We have forgotten personal honour, and we lie to ourselves.

This is why we need contracts for everything, because a man/woman’s word is worth diddely squat!! And THAT is wrong. I get really depressed when people don’t take your word and have to have visual or written confirmation on everything you say and do!

Every man/woman needs a code. A code of honour that lets you live your life in respect, for yourself none the least!

Mine is not originally mine but I follow it anyways, and my daughters and sons will follow it to.

Never violate a woman, nor harm a child.  Do not lie, cheat or steal.  These things are for lesser men.  Protect the weak against the evil strong.  And never allow thoughts of gain to lead you into the pursuit of evil.

God Bless and live you life in honour!

The internet is a great tool and a great source of information. But we loose something if we do not communicate with our fellow man/woman. The thing that binds our society together is the drive to care and nurture each other, if that goes away then were will our empathy go?

There is a reason why kids go out and attack old-timers for kicks and laughs.
There are reasons why people walk over a human being that is laying on a icy street.
So let the spirit of Christmas follow you through the seasons all year round, and take pride in caring for each other!

Treat people good and you will find a heaven on earth.
Merry X-mas

I forgot about that advise for quite a while and my life was kind of plan-less. No hammered goal.
Then a friend reminded me of it about a year ago. And I wrote down an outline of what I wanted.

I looked at the list the other day and realized that I am further along to achieving my goals then I thought possible in so short a time!

So my advice today is that you find a piece of paper and a pen and commit 3 min of your life to yourself and your personal succes.

Regards to you all

Thank you Ben for your comment, it was good to be reminded of all the reasons why the U.S says that they need to stay.
Note however that Obama has never said that they need to prolong it. He had firm and valid reasons under his campaign, as to why the war should, and must, end.

What I am rejecting is the explanation that the U.S is going out of Afghanistan when they are in fact going in.
The number of troops that Obama will send will make Americas presence there bigger than ever under Bushes time.
Where, I ask you, is the peace in that.

If the Afghani wants to build a nation of their own, why not let them? Do you think for one minute that if they managed to build a strong state that their government would allow Al Qaeda to continue existing?
I will bet every rise-paddy in China that the Afghanis would know where to rout them out from if it came to that!
Is not America built by people who just wanted a country of their own? A people who resisted and detested a foreign ruler?
America should sympathise with Afghanistan, and let them build up their country again. A process which would take a long time.

Nuclear threat? Only if the U.S keeps pushing! A cornered dog fights to the death.

I thank you for your comment Ben, and hope that you know that I respect your feelings and opinions. And I hope as well that you can accept my growing wariness against the “war on terror” when it should be called “war on children and families”.  Afghani families and American families.

All the best

Well it seems that we were duped in the most eloquent manor.

This suave, handsome man has as so far not proven to not be a President of peace, but of war!
I wonder if the self-proclaimed prophet David Ike is right in his claim that Obama is evil.
I hope it is not so, i hope for all our sakes that it wont come to more bloodshed in the name of “peace” but I am afraid I will only get disappointed.

Seek the truth with your own hearts and do not be afraid to challenge the word of your leaders.

Exercise your body by walking, running, going to the gym.
A healthy body helps you and gives you energy to maintain in this hectic world.

Exercise your mind. Read books, watch documentaries about how the world works, listen to musik from other countrys.
Exercise your mind by seeing beyond the boundary’s of your own world.

Give affection freely to people around you and try not to be mean or spiteful, this is for lesser beings.
A helpful hand is always remembered.

Get a good nights sleep, invest in a good bed is never wrong.
Do all this and you will have a whole new world opening up to you.

A wise man told me once that the cages we are in, we build them ourself s.
It is up to you to open your own cage.

Why do you read?

75% said they dont read, at all!
15% read to get away and for fun.
5% said they read for school.
5% said that they read to learn.

These figures are quite amazing considering this is supposed to be the age of enlightment and knowledge.

If you go through your life and do not want to learn, then what is there to life? Finding a suitable mate and raise a family?
That is not a bad choice, its one of the best. But what will you tell your kid when he one day asks about his cultural heritage.

What I am saying is simple. Learn, Do not be afraid of standing out in a crowd with the knowledge you acquire for yourself.
Do not be afraid to seek answers from history, or to challenge what is said by modern day men and women.
Everything a human being needs to know about the world is in books, and if you are not afraid to see it from a critical point of view then the world will be your oyster…

People who do not believe everything they hear from government and society in general

Are seeking better ways to do things in life

Are looking for a better meaning for living

People who wonder how on earth the masses can live the way they do

People who are seeking the truth in all things and are willing to share their findings with others.

Modern explorers and adventurers looking in the final frontiers of mind, body and soul and who are not afraid to live the truth once discovered.

This is who we are in the UTSS